My mother-in-law invited us over for a big family supper today. It was so nice of her to do all that hard work. My sister-in-law and her husband did the grilling and my father-in-law contributed to the fun as well. :)
I have been very busy working on Christmas gifts. Right now I am making felted wool dryer balls . They are so easy and fun to make. Good news is, they use essential oils instead of chemicals, cut way down on costs, and speed up drying time. I will post a picture when I have them ready.
Today is our second, or third, Friday to pray for each other. It is such a wonderful thing to read all of the requests and to see all the other women pray.
I had a great day today buying baby clothes for my great niece. One of our favorite resale stores has a $5 bag sale and I woke up an hour before I had intended and got there super early. Then I got to come home and look at all those cute clothes. What a blessing.
Our discussion today was about hope, value and excellence. Chrystal explained how the gymnasts that we see at the Olympics probably dedicate 8-10 hours a day to their sport. This lends itself to excellence in that area. I know we can't spend that much time a day in prayer, but it is an example to earnestly seek the things that draw us and others to God. I think it boils down to priorities. I have a motto that I learned few years back. Many people knew it long before me. "When you say yes to one thing you are saying no to something else." That's not bad, but if you hold it up against your standards and goals does what you're doing with your time measure up.
Here is my list of priorities.
1. God. This includes quiet time, Bible study, serving and anything else that keeps our eyes on God.
2. My husband and my kids. If I am given money for household needs ( groceries, clothes, decor, whatever our home needs to run) I am to be diligent in how I manage our house while my husband is away at work. My children are also an area I am commanded to be dedicated in disciplining and guiding. This is no easy chore but one that I am thankful to have and I take it seriously. I love my kiddos a bunch! My duty to love and honor my husband is not one that I take lightly. I try very hard to be available and positive for him.
3. Family and friends. This includes extended family and friends. Cultivating and keeping the relationships that I cherish.
4. Health and wellness. This is the trouble area. Taking time to take care of me. I fail at this one daily.
So , if I get an offer to do an activity, a class, to hang out with friends or family, whatever the thing is that takes me away from the home, I measure it against this list. If it enhances any of these, great! If not, I try to see if it is best or necessary for me and/or the family. Lots of things will come up and lots of things might be fun, but do they get in the way of us fulfilling our goals. Then I have my answer.
When I am gone, I want to leave a legacy. Even if you're not conscious of it, you'll leave one. Will it be the legacy you WANT to leave? It takes some planning and I have to be intentional about our choices.
Everyone that knows me knows that I'm VEEEEEEERY far from perfect, far from getting it right, but God knows I try!
As we all journey together on this road to being a Kingdom Woman, the question was asked about our ability to surrender and what it has meant to us? As usual, there were many excellent responses and stories of God's amazing grace. There were stories of transplants God arranged , moms trying to let go of expectations and fear, so many great stories from women being real.
My story is a pretty easy one to tell. I was a worrier, health nut, fear-based-liver, on the road to trusting completely!
You see, God knew my weak spot. When people asked how I was doing, my response was always the same. "We are all healthy so life is good." I really said that all the time. Counting my blessings that we were all healthy. But God knew that was a weakness, a fear. What if I wasn't well? Could I still say life is good? Yes! After Lyme Disease and some years of practice. I can say it is still good even if I have to surrender it all to Him. I know He loves me and wants what is best for me and this is part of my training for what He needs me to do later, for His glory. I don't know what it is but He does and that's all that matters!
I have a quote that I found today.
Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be.
I am always amazed at myself. Not in a good way but in a surprised way.
Looking at this blog you can see how inconsistent and scattered I can be. Not with school, home or relationships, just with some things. Now let me explain why I am even here again.
I am thinking that this time might be different. Maybe I have arrived at a place and time in my life where I can follow through with a hobby, a goal. We will see.
I have started a new book study with a wonderful group of women. All online, mostly all strangers to each other, until now. We are praying for each other, learning and growing. It is wonderful to see the power of women praying for each other and exciting to see what God has planned. The book is Kingdom Woman by Chrystal Evans Hurst and her dad, Tony Evans. I have really enjoyed the book but my biggest enjoyment is honestly seeing these women pray for each other, it is so encouraging.
I am thrilled about this year. I have a new attitude and a positive outlook . Of course this does not come from me but from the Lord. I have been prayerfully choosing our curriculum and can tell that it works wonders to do it this way. Our daughter is using Tapestry of Grace year 2 and our son is in year 2 in Amblesideonline. Along with our change in curriculum, I have chosen to cut waaaay back on extra work and activities. This has given me the opportunity to be much more organized and calm. This creates a much more enjoyable environment around our casa. I hope to learn how to use my new iPad to upload school ideas and stuff onto my blog. So far, it's not happening. Until later, have a great Monday !
I can hardly believe how old our daughter is. She is in 8th grade and so mature. You hear it said a million times, how fast it goes, but until it passes you by, you really don't get it. Our boy is growing up too and still just as fun as ever. It is nice to have one that is still innocent and young. They are both doing really good in school and behaving very well . I have seen lots of change in them over the past year since I have been more deliberate in my parenting and time management.
One thing that has really blessed me ( and countless others I am sure) is http://www.flylady.com/. It is a time management/motivational site that keeps moms flying on track. You can have it sent to you daily and read it every morning. Today I had to clean my car and purse. well, I swapped it for my kitchen and organized there instead. But the point is, I did something! And it feels so good. I could open that cabinet door and look at it all day.
Well, I will start posting school things soon. Until then, blessings!
